Addicted to cheating!!!!!

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WOMEN are discovering the thrill of secret sex.
The Sun’s survey into our love lives found more than one in four women who are married or living with a partner have had an average of three affairs.

One in 10 have had a fling to get her own back on a cheating fella, while more and more say their flings are about pure lust.

Here Sun Woman Deputy Editor SINEAD DESMOND speaks to three women who just can’t stay faithful.

And agony aunt Deidre Sanders explains why some are never happy with one partner.

SOME names and details have been changed to protect identities.

MELANIE IFMEAL

The 24-year-old waitress from Lincoln, pictured above left, says:

I LOVE men and I love the attention they give me so I get bored in a relationship.

Every time it gets serious I meet someone else then tell my boyfriend I’ve cheated on him — it’s a way of finishing a relationship without having the emotional chat.

It makes me feel powerful when I see that a man fancies me.

I have tried to stay faithful but I feel I’m missing out on something.

I was 18 when I had my first serious boyfriend, Stuart.

He was 20, a car salesman and he adored me but he was very intense and wanted to get married.

As a way out I chatted up one of my customers at a café I worked in.

I slipped my phone number in his bill and gave him a cheeky wink.

He called and we arranged to meet the next day.

We went back to his house and started kissing. I think the fact that I was a waitress — I was still in my uniform — and he was a customer made it exciting and we had sex.

After that we met every week for two months.

The secrecy gave me a huge buzz. In the end I left Stuart.

I love the romance of a steady relationship but it can’t compete with the thrill of an illicit liaison.

Stuart is hoping we can make a go of things again — maybe I’m ready now.


HELEN LINDER

The 25-year-old nail technician from Southampton, centre, says:

I’M a man addict!

I love being in control of my own sex life and deciding when and where to have my fun.

At the moment I’m enjoying being intimate with a few men at once. I’m making up for lost time.

When I was younger no boys were interested in me.

I was lanky and awkward — then I blossomed and loved the attention.

I went out with my first boyfriend, Greg, 24, an army medic, when I was almost 17.

It a was passionate relationship.

I loved him and lost my virginity in the back of his car.

After that I couldn’t get enough, I loved sex.

I was faithful to Greg for three years but one Christmas we were at a party when I caught the eye of this guy.

Greg was talking football with mates, I was bored so I flirted with this man.

When I walked out of the room he followed me and grabbed my arm, saying I was beautiful and he wanted me.

I felt bad about Greg but then I heard him do a huge belch as his friends laughed.

Suddenly I felt angry that Greg took me for granted so I pulled this guy towards me and kissed and kissed him.

We ran upstairs to the bathroom and made love standing up.

That was the first time I’d ever cheated and it was such a rush — it made the sex fantastic, knowing I could be caught.

But I was racked with guilt the next day and told Greg it was over.

Soon I had three men on the go.

I’d meet one at lunchtime, one in the evenings and the other at weekends.

They had no idea about each other and that made it exciting.

But after a while I missed having that emotional connection with someone.

When I was 22 I began dating Pete.

One night we went to a doctors’ and nurses’ party where he got drunk and fell asleep.

A guy chatted me up and I thought: Why not?

I took him upstairs into a bedroom, locked the door and ordered him to lie on the floor.

I straddled him and we had sex. I was wearing my sexy nurse’s outfit with high heels and fishnet stockings.

Afterwards I winked at him, straightened my nurse’s uniform and went downstairs ready to get sexy with Pete.

I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong.

I always use a condom and never pretend to have feelings for anyone I don’t.

Pete and I finished but I’ll be faithful to the man I want to be with forever. Until then I’ll have fun.


RACHEL DAVIES

The 23-year-old office administrator from Bournemouth, right, says:

I WAS faithful to my first boyfriend Jake. He was 19 and I was 17.

We were completely smitten.

We were young, in love and horny!

But then I found out he’d been with someone else on my 19th birthday.

I’ve had a problem with trusting men ever since.

That might explain why I cheat.

It’s also a challenge to get men into bed. I love sex and I love flirting.

I’m going out with a guy called Sid and he knows I haven’t been faithful to him.

I pulled a friend of his two weeks ago.

I saw him in a club and he was gorgeous so I took him back to my flat and leapt on him.

He couldn’t believe his luck — we had sex on a kitchen cabinet, on the lounge floor and finally in my bed.

Sid found out and went mad but I just couldn’t help myself.

Sid walked out but I saw him in a pub just last week and I flirted outrageously — it was the ultimate challenge to get him back.

I bought him a drink then pressed my body against his and stroked his thighs as I whispered what I wanted to do to him.

Within minutes we were outside kissing madly in the street then we went back to mine and had incredible sex.

He asked me to stay faithful this time but I had to be honest and say I couldn’t promise.

I know it won’t be long before I see another guy I just have to have.




WOMEN who repeatedly cheat have almost always been hurt in past relationships or during childhood.
They hold back from relationships in self-defence and, once in a partnership, may be the first to be unfaithful because this is what they expect of men.

Nearly a quarter of women who are having a fling say their lover is more romantic and considerate than their partner.
Just like men, two out of three women who cheat are kidding themselves it’s harmless.

Sometimes a fling can benefit a relationship if the couple have a strong bond and aren’t too jealous.
But more often, men find it harder than women to get over sexual infidelity and their trust may never be rebuilt.